Be Intentional

I wanna talk dating as a creative but first lets talk about the beauty of being solo — When I first moved into my apartment I craved company so much. I rarely spent full days by myself or really taking things slow. The newly single me had her troubles adjusting to this new life.

 Everyday I was decorating and creating this intentional safe space for my blessings to enter gracefully. The one thing I wasn't doing was really sitting with myself and falling into love with just being. Fast forward a few months and I am finally learning to sit with myself!  

I would describe this new chapter as the learning/unlearning of me. 

Sitting alone in this safe space and giving myself the room to really make note of what makes me happy. Romanticizing my days, farmers market mornings + enjoying a hot matcha latte in bed w/ my phone on do not disturb. It truly is the little things that give me the soft experience that we consistently crave. 

Are you aware of what truly makes you happy? Not what social media defines self care/self love as but your own definition. I talk about making my own happy with my therapist and how that is forever evolving with every new stage of my life. 

I have my good and bad days but this is only preparation for something beautiful. 

Take your journal out and write down what makes you happy when you're solo. 

What does a great day by yourself look like?! Learn you and be intentional about it.